Traditions are often referred to as a thing of the past, although there are many people that still follow the old-fashioned courting route for their relationships.
Courtship is used by a number of theorists to explain gendering processes and sexual identity.
In the earlier 1800s, young adults were expected to court with the intention of finding a marriage partner, rather than for social reasons.
In more traditional forms of Christianity, this concept of courtship has been retained, with John Piper defining courtship and distinguishing this concept from dating, stating that: Courtship ordinarily begins when a single man approaches a single woman by going through the woman's father, and then conducts his relationship with the woman under the authority of her father, family, or church, whichever is most appropriate.
It is common to see the male showing off by sending love letters and love poems, singing romantic songs and buying gifts for the female.