Most women claim to want the guy who is sensitive, emotionally fluent and intimate. We are literally, scientifically geared to want assh*les.
Yet, when it comes down to it, women consistently chase after the “bad boy," the guy who is narcissistic, self-absorbed and avoids all forms of intimacy as if they were infectious diseases. While women claim to want “the nice guy,” we're genetically hard-wired to want to procreate with the alpha male because he has stronger sperm.
Women like to "fix men." A nice guy doesn't need any taming. His vanity is all at once angering and intoxicating.
But always be flexible, in case your date hates Chinese food, for example, or she just told you her favorite musical group is in town, tonight only.
Low-cost dates conducive to getting to know each other include the zoo, a museum, or miniature golf. Most women like to communicate verbally and welcome the chance to be heard.
So it's sex that ultimately drives a woman into the arms of the alpha assh*le. A study from researchers at Hartpury College in England, of 146 British women, ages 18-24, found that even the most seasoned daters still tended to fall for men who expelled narcissistic qualities.
The narcissistic male does not make a good partner, but even experienced females do not realize this. In a tragic twist of fate, the assh*les are now breeding assh*les. The tests are tried and true; women habitually chase these d-bags, despite how many times they have their hearts broken. We want those arrogant dicks who make us somehow feel alive.
If you want feedback, ask a friend—possibly a female friend—for honest input. The good news for nice guys is that as women get older, perhaps having survived a bad-boy heartbreak or two, they are more likely to appreciate nice guys.