And then, it was the same with my job and with the amount of time I spent in office and how much I spend on shopping. But he always seemed hurt and pained when I went out without him. No matter what I did, unless I had his approval, he was always upset by something or the other. Nothing could ever please him, and he always had a way of pointing flaws in the things I did.
[Read: Why we end up falling out of love in a relationship] And a few relationships later, I met another great guy.
And within a few weeks of dating this new guy, I started seeing the same symptoms that I had seen in my earlier boyfriend, great guys who give great advice, but eventually turn into men who can never be pleased.
And before you know it, your sweet and insecure man will learn to control your life by playing the part of the victim.
And you’ll never even realize you’re being manipulated and arm twisted till you lose your old happy life and become a woman whose only ambition in life is to keep her man happy and make him feel proud of her.
[Read: How to deal with insecurity in a relationship] That’s the strange power of insecurity and insecure men in a relationship.