My mantra to women is to look for a complement, not a clone.This may not come naturally to you, especially if you’re a smart, strong, successful woman who thinks that you “deserve” a man who is smarter, stronger, and more successful than you are. That’s why he’d date you, because you provide an element to his life that is unique and special.Because as we said, she has always been the apple of her parents' eye!
We’ve long ago established that the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.
That describes most of us when it comes to dating and relationships. You’re attracted to a certain kind of personality type.
what percentage of my clients found love from changing their choice of men.
All my success stories changed their choice of men. You might need your own complement, just like the alpha males I’ve described above. So, to me, your takeaway in figuring out how to attract and keep the right guy, your biggest problem is not who you are inside. The men you’re choosing are not necessarily the right guy.
So, when I DO find the right guy, or what I hope to be, I follow Evan’s advice.